Phil McAuliffe
Am I gay enough?
I've been struggling with this question for a while. I know you have been, too.
Phil is here to help you through your loneliness and get the
soul-nourishing connection you need and deserve
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Phil McAuliffe
- Jun 9
- 6 min
The loneliness of Pride
June is Pride month. Being gay isn't all rainbows and unicorns, is it?
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Phil McAuliffe
- May 19
- 7 min
Hitting rock bottom
Hitting rock bottom is messy.
Rock bottom is a source of authentic connection.
86 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Mar 17
- 9 min
Your busyness kills connection
Soul-nourishing connection requires
authentic vulnerability, time and space. Your busyness is killing the connection you need.
67 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Feb 3
- 6 min
My theme for 2022: Let it happen
I love a good plan, but trusting in it and ‘letting it happen’ is a real challenge for me.
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Phil McAuliffe
- Dec 2, 2021
- 4 min
How do you numb?
The thoughts and feeling of loneliness are horrible. How do you numb them?
55 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Nov 18, 2021
- 11 min
Belonging and loneliness
When you feel that you belong, you feel connected. When you don’t, you can feel lonely. Let me share my experience.
98 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Nov 4, 2021
- 9 min
How to make friends as a gay man
Making friends is tough. Let me help you with that.
207 views
Kevin Moran
- Oct 21, 2021
- 10 min
How to have kick-ass boundaries
Getting our boundaries right is fucking hard when we're lonely. But they are such a profound gift of self-respect back to ourselves.
57 views
Justin Oberste MA, AMFT
- Oct 7, 2021
- 10 min
The loneliness of change
Dark nights of the soul are horrible.
And needed.
345 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Sep 23, 2021
- 5 min
2021: Your year of authentic connection - third progress check
How is your year of authentic connection going? Let's check in and find out.
27 views
Andrew Reid
- Sep 9, 2021
- 11 min
The loneliness of being gay in a straight marriage
To be a gay man in a straight marriage is to be disconnected from self.
785 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Aug 26, 2021
- 8 min
Hook-up apps
Best advice I’ve ever received about hook-up apps: ‘You will get fucked’
176 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Aug 12, 2021
- 5 min
Cracks are sexy
Yes, male asses are beautiful. So is kintsugi.
56 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Jul 29, 2021
- 5 min
How to find your Prince Charming
Waiting for your Prince Charming to save you from your loneliness? Wait no more!
84 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Mar 4, 2021
- 4 min
2021 – Your year of authentic connection: first progress check
How is your year of authentic connection progressing?
31 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Dec 10, 2020
- 7 min
The gift of loneliness
Is it time to open the gift of your loneliness this Christmas?
47 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Nov 12, 2020
- 7 min
Who are you?
If putting yourself out into the world is the cure to loneliness, who are you?
59 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Oct 15, 2020
- 9 min
How to speak your loneliness story
Don’t know how to speak about your loneliness?
I’ve got your back.
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