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Phil McAuliffe
- Nov 11
- 7 min
Who are you?
If putting yourself out into the world is the cure to loneliness, who are you?
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Phil McAuliffe
- Oct 28
- 13 min
Shame and loneliness
Shame begets loneliness. Loneliness begets shame. Let’s turn our shame into our ally.
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Phil McAuliffe
- Oct 14
- 9 min
How to speak your loneliness story
Don’t know how to speak about your loneliness?
I’ve got your back.
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Michael DiIorio
- Sep 22
- 8 min
Connection and casual sex: pros and cons
Can we gay men use casual sex as a means of connection?
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Phil McAuliffe
- Jun 23
- 5 min
What type of gay am I?
I know what type of gay I am. How about you?
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Phil McAuliffe
- Jun 10
- 6 min
So, you're lonely and gay. What's next?
You've realised that you’re lonely. What do you do next?
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Phil McAuliffe
- May 3
- 6 min
Owning our coming out stories
There is such power in our coming out stories. Do you own yours or does it own you?
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Phil McAuliffe
- Feb 24
- 6 min
Authenticity is EVERYTHING
Here it is: the secret to beating loneliness
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Phil McAuliffe
- Jan 21
- 6 min
Why loneliness? Why me?
Why start a blog on gay men and loneliness?
And who am I to write on it anyway?
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