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THE LONELINESS GUY
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Read one, some or binge-read all of the 50+ articles written by Phil and guests to help you feel connected as a gay man.
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Phil McAuliffe
Apr 1, 20237 min read
Breaking the stigma: navigating loneliness and learning to thrive
Times of change are when we most feel lonely. This includes me.
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Craig Watson
Mar 4, 20239 min read
Finding my place: how Craig navigates life as a Christian and gay man
Is there a bigger source of loneliness-inducing trauma in our community than religious trauma? This is Craig's story.
713 views
Phil McAuliffe
Feb 4, 20238 min read
The lonely side of gay: the 5 symptoms you shouldn't ignore
I see 5 common symptoms of gay loneliness.
Do you have any of them?
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Phil McAuliffe
Dec 15, 20227 min read
Navigating the Holidays: strategies for surviving the festive season
This time of year can be tough.
Your loneliness loves to spoil your joy.
Let's get you through this season.
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Phil McAuliffe
Nov 24, 202210 min read
Am I Gay Enough? Exploring the complexities of identity, acceptance and belonging
I've been struggling with this question for a while. I know you have been, too.
203 views
Phil McAuliffe
Nov 3, 20225 min read
The impact of bad design on social connection: can it really make you lonely?
I’m curious: what if the loneliness you’re feeling is a response to bad building design?
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Phil McAuliffe
Oct 13, 20227 min read
The Hairy Truth: discovering lessons in regrowing my body hair
I regrew my body hair for the first time in over 20 years. This is what I learned.
195 views
Ed Wilson
Sep 22, 20226 min read
The importance of being open to connection in preventing loneliness: Ed's story
'We take life too seriously. We forget how weak, needy and broken we are.'
182 views
Craig Cassey
Sep 1, 20227 min read
The high cost of success: exploring Craig's loneliness
Does success bring loneliness? For Craig, loneliness is a choice, an illusion and a friendly reminder
149 views
Angello Floresco
Aug 11, 20227 min read
Dating as a gay man: how Angello worked through loneliness to find real connection
How has missing out on dating men when he was younger fed Angello's loneliness?
159 views
Jesse Elkins
Jul 21, 202210 min read
Confessions of a social chameleon: how Jesse unintentionally fed his loneliness
We must speak and share our loneliness stories if we're to
de-stigmatise gay loneliness. Here's Jesse's story.
305 views
Phil McAuliffe
Jun 30, 20226 min read
Exploring the tough realities of loneliness within gay communities
Let’s explore five truths about gay loneliness and how to not feel lonely.
276 views
Phil McAuliffe
Jun 9, 20226 min read
The dark side of Pride: exploring the loneliness of Pride
June is Pride month. Being gay isn't all rainbows and unicorns, is it?
240 views
Phil McAuliffe
May 19, 20227 min read
When hitting rock bottom becomes the foundation for a better you.
Hitting rock bottom is messy.
Rock bottom is a source of authentic connection.
151 views
Phil McAuliffe
Apr 28, 20228 min read
Porn and you: does it feed your loneliness?
Does your porn use feed your loneliness? Can porn be a tool for connection? Let’s find out
136 views
Phil McAuliffe
Apr 7, 20229 min read
The connection between being gay, negative body image and feelings of loneliness
You’re sexy and your loneliness hopes you don't know it
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Phil McAuliffe
Mar 17, 20228 min read
Is busyness damaging your relationships? Prioritising connection in a busy world
Soul-nourishing connection requires
authentic vulnerability, time and space. Your busyness is killing the connection you need.
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Phil McAuliffe
Feb 17, 20225 min read
The power of letting go: why holding on is holding you back
How does your emotional baggage stop you connecting?
Do you need to be like Elsa and just let it go?
83 views
Phil McAuliffe
Feb 3, 20226 min read
My theme for 2022: Let it happen
I love a good plan, but trusting in it and ‘letting it happen’ is a real challenge for me.
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Phil McAuliffe
Dec 16, 20215 min read
Wrapping up 2021
How has your year of authentic connection been?
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