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Craig Watson
- Mar 4
- 9 min
Being Christian and gay
Is there a bigger source of loneliness-inducing trauma in our community than religious trauma? This is Craig's story.
493 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Feb 4
- 8 min
5 symptoms of gay loneliness
I see 5 common symptoms of gay loneliness.
Do you have any of them?
284 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Nov 24, 2022
- 10 min
Am I gay enough?
I've been struggling with this question for a while. I know you have been, too.
137 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Oct 13, 2022
- 7 min
3 things I learned growing my body hair
I regrew my body hair for the first time in over 20 years. This is what I learned.
171 views
Ed Wilson
- Sep 22, 2022
- 6 min
Ed Wilson: my loneliness
'We take life too seriously. We forget how weak, needy and broken we are.'
130 views
Craig Cassey
- Sep 1, 2022
- 7 min
Craig Cassey: the loneliness of success
Does success bring loneliness? For Craig, loneliness is a choice, an illusion and a friendly reminder
119 views
Jesse Elkins
- Jul 21, 2022
- 10 min
Jesse Elkins: my loneliness
We must speak and share our loneliness stories if we're to
de-stigmatise gay loneliness. Here's Jesse's story.
204 views
Phil McAuliffe
- May 19, 2022
- 7 min
Hitting rock bottom
Hitting rock bottom is messy.
Rock bottom is a source of authentic connection.
109 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Apr 28, 2022
- 8 min
Does porn feed your loneliness?
Does your porn use feed your loneliness? Can porn be a tool for connection? Let’s find out
109 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Apr 7, 2022
- 9 min
Body image & loneliness
You’re sexy and your loneliness hopes you don't know it
100 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Mar 17, 2022
- 9 min
Your busyness kills connection
Soul-nourishing connection requires
authentic vulnerability, time and space. Your busyness is killing the connection you need.
71 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Feb 17, 2022
- 6 min
What are you holding on to?
How does your emotional baggage stop you connecting?
Do you need to be like Elsa and just let it go?
71 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Feb 3, 2022
- 6 min
My theme for 2022: Let it happen
I love a good plan, but trusting in it and ‘letting it happen’ is a real challenge for me.
71 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Dec 16, 2021
- 5 min
Wrapping up 2021
How has your year of authentic connection been?
36 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Nov 4, 2021
- 8 min
How to make friends as a gay man
Making friends is tough. Let me help you with that.
1,108 views
Kevin Moran
- Oct 21, 2021
- 10 min
How to have kick-ass boundaries
Getting our boundaries right is fucking hard when we're lonely. But they are such a profound gift of self-respect back to ourselves.
84 views
Andrew Reid
- Sep 9, 2021
- 11 min
The loneliness of being gay in a straight marriage
To be a gay man in a straight marriage is to be disconnected from self.
1,159 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Aug 26, 2021
- 7 min
Hook-up apps
Best advice I’ve ever received about hook-up apps: ‘You will get fucked’
234 views
Phil McAuliffe
- Aug 12, 2021
- 5 min
Cracks are sexy
Yes, male asses are beautiful. So is kintsugi.
60 views
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