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I have a bold vision for the work here at The Loneliness Guy and am putting plans in place to start making them happen.


But I need help.

The vision


I have a vision for The Loneliness Guy to be the place for gay men experiencing loneliness to come and get the support they need at the time they need it, wherever they are in the world. 

The vision is a society where we can freely talk about feelings of loneliness without shame, embarrassment or judgement - without stigma - and know how to get the type of authentic connection we need as humans.

The vision is one where gay men experiencing loneliness can get help and support online and in their community.

How I plan to execute the vision

The first part of the plan has been to increase awareness and normalise conversations about loneliness based on my own lived experience and insight. This has started through the blog, podcast and social media presence. This will continue.

The second part of the plan has been to partner with experts - coaches, therapists, academics and other human connection experts - to support those gay men who've read my blog, listened to my podcast or have engaged with my content on social media to get them the individual help and support they need. This will continue.

The next parts of the plan involve:

  • building relationships within organisations and groups that work on loneliness and connection issues around the world;

  • partnering with experts to develop and then deliver programs on loneliness and authentic connection in schools, universities, workplaces and communities designed to help gay men build the connections to self, those most important to them and to their communities that they need; and

  • advocating for the needs of gay men experiencing loneliness with governments and research institutions.  

What help do I need?

If you've been reading or listening to my work over the past two years, you know that I'm deeply passionate about de-stigmatising loneliness and promoting authentic connection for gay men globally.


The reality is that I need time and start-up money to take the next step.

I currently work full-time and work on my loneliness- and connection-related work in the hours before work, after work and on the weekends. I need time to establish the connections I must develop and I need money beyond our current personal finances to engage with experts to help me deliver on my vision. 

How can you help?

You've helped me by simply reading this far.

However, if you share my vision to make The Loneliness Guy a place for gay men around the world to get the help and support they need to build real, genuine and authentic connections, please consider making a financial investment in this work by making a single or regular financial contribution.

You can do that through the PayPal link below.

Click here to invest

Click here if you cannot see the 'Donate' button

**Note: you'll see and receive messages with 'The Lonely Diplomat' in the title and text.

This is fine, it's my business' name! **

What you get

As an investor, you will receive regular email updates with reports about how your contribution is helping me scale-up my work here at The Loneliness Guy. Your voice will help shape and influence the work de-stigmatising loneliness and will promote authentic connection for gay men globally.

Can't invest financially?

If you're unable to invest financially, I'm always open to offers of in-kind support.

Do you have a question or two?

I understand that you may not want to invest now and want to have a chat with me and ask me some questions. That's completely OK. Honestly, I'm not even sure if this is a good way to go about asking for help. But here we are =)

Send me an email and let's arrange a conversation and I'll happily answer your questions.

Thank you for coming to this page and considering how you can invest in the future vision and sustainability of this work supporting gay men experiencing loneliness wherever they are in the world.

~ Phil