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There was a reason you tapped a link to arrive here. Honour yourself. Stay curious. Get connected.

You feeling soul-nourishing connection and the joy of belonging starts here.


I know you're tired of feeling unseen, unheard, lonely and alone. This is where that begins to change. Book your call with me to start feeling the joy of connection and that you finally belong. 

You're moments away from starting something that will help you feel that you belong and feel less lonely and alone,

Stay curious and let's get you past your loneliness. 

~ Phil


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Not addressing loneliness in your workplace costs you.


Loneliness in your workplace makes you and your team less productive, less efficient and more likely to leave.

Phil and his programs for your organisation are here to support you create your well-connected, high-performing workplace.

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Phil can serve, support, challenge and inspire your audience on the topic of gay loneliness.


This includes speaking at your conference, event or on your podcast.  

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As your Connection Mentor, Phil guides you through your loneliness and helps you identify the connection you're missing. With Phil, you'll work through the Connection Starter Course and you and Phil will build your Connection Plan: your easy, practical guide to help you get the connection and sense of belonging that you need and deserve.

Your Connection Plan will help you move past your loneliness and feel that you belong whenever you experience it.

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I'm Phil McAuliffe. That's me in the picture. I'm The Loneliness Guy.


I created The Loneliness Guy in 2020 (and before that, The Lonely Diplomat in 2018) after I realised I was lonely as I approached my 40s. I googled for the answers but the only help provided seemed inadequate or only for old people. I felt that I could do something to support other gay men like me. I created the resource and support I wish I'd had. 

Are you a gay man who's exploring - or admits - that you may be lonely by coming here? Well done. I'm proud of you. I'm here to tell you that great things can happen from here.

Join me as we explore gay loneliness and the importance of authentic connection to self, to others and to our communities. This is how we work through our feelings of loneliness and needing more real connection in our lives.

Get to know me, my services, read a blog or listen to the podcast are great places to get started.

Thanks for being here. Now, let's get on to de-stigmatising gay loneliness. Let's get you the help and support you need and deserve.

~ Phil

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Phil's building a great team of life coaches whose services he knows can help you become more awesomely you.


Do you need urgent, professional help right now?


These books, blogs and podcasts help, challenge and inspire me.

'Thank you so much for using your voice and spirit to uplift those of us who feel unwanted, undesirable and misunderstood, and encouraging us to get to know and love ourselves first and foremost. You are beautiful inside and out, Phil.'

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